When you feel…

Hi there!

Time is very limited for me to write something which really comes from heart.Well, life is a challenge. And the challenges can come in many ways. I am grateful that I am surrounded by good people, insyaallah.

Though some can be very negative, I believe that there is reason why Allah make us be with such people.

When we say challenge, we might think that we are the one who is being challenged the most. We are the busiest person, we are the most person with problems and we are the most unlucky person.

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When people think that it’s easy…

When we see someone doing certain things successfully, we might think that it could be easy for us to do it too!

Let’s take a simple example. A lady selling nasi lemak by the road side. we might be surprised to know that her weekly collection for selling nasi lemak (which will take about 3 hours a day) is almost as much as a month salary for a fresh graduate! (let’s say her collection is around RM400/day).

Then, some people say,”Oh, I can sell nasi lemak and make money too. Just like her. Emmm…but I don’t think I want to do it.”

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Reading : Book vs e-book

Well, people read and they read many types of printed materials. As technology grows books can be found in different manner. Most people have the idea to be ‘paperless’ to achieve better objectives and aims.

Some look at it at the persepcetive of ‘cost-effectiveness’. Save paper, save money. Others will see it differently, save printing cost, make more money.

Whatever the perspective be, I would say personally, I love to read books that I can hold,touch the textures of each sigle page, flip the pages and smell the scent of papers in the air.

To be able to have the feel as my fingers run through the words, as my eyes run over the pages give me satisfaction of getting new things into my mind and further challenge it.

So, friends, what do you say about reading? Will internet, blogs and e-book

Will ‘history’ change your mind?

Well, many said history, but here I would say ‘history’. Old story as in history in our life, story in our family and it could be our love story too!

My question was simple, “Can a ‘history’ change your mind?”

I wanted to share a story of a friend of mine who has been married for ’20 years’ and then was divorced by her husband. I can’t imagine, after 20 years life with kids (definitely more than one!), a man can just simply say, “I married you not because of love, at the first place..Now, I’ve found my first love, I I want her back..”

I myself could not imagine what will happen to me if someone said that..

Personally, I accept the fact than a man can marry to more than 1 wife, of course he must know exactly the criteria and the ‘qualifications’ needed for that.

But, making a nonsense and illogical excuse is not acceptable.

So, for those who think that they are OK, alright with anything, just don’t trust yourself. Because, you might not be able to accept any such excuse from a man in your life, especially the one that you love as a husband.

I moght be wrong, but this is my personal view. As a Muslim, we always have to have faith in ALLAH, with doa as the most important tool in life, tawakkal need to take place.

May ALLAh bless us all. AMIN.